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Fighting Fair

Remember those long and intimate conversations in the springtime of your marriage, perhaps when you were just discovering your love for each other or during your engagement. Well, any intense, intimate relationship hits times of disagreement and conflict. If couples always agree on everything it often means one partner is overly dominant or the other overly passive. Christ continues to tell us to love one another – even when we fall into bickering or disillusionment. Fighting Fair gives us some tools to make those disagreements productive and eventually lead to deeper love.

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